but…the cold DOES bother me

As I’m sitting here watching my poor, frozen Seahawks struggle against the Minnesota Vikings in minus two degree weather, I feel like I need a little bit of a distraction. So I will share my latest accomplishment! I have been trying not to put too much wedding-related stuff here, since I started a whole different…

how it happened

And now, because I know this is what y’all have been truly waiting for… Band Geek proposed while we were in Vegas a couple weeks ago. I know, I know, it was a surprise to me too. He did it in the Atrium in the Mirage, which is ONLY my most favorite spot in Vegas, and…

“bedroom aides” and other euphemisms

So, today I’m talking about sex toys. Yep. If you’re squeamish or offended by the idea of discussing little plastic/rubber/motorized toys used in the bedroom (and other places) you may want to stop reading and go find something else. I promise I won’t be offended.   If you’ve read any of my older stuff, you…

the non-date…redux

So last Thursday, I had had my fill of feeling sorry for myself and decided to head to my favorite karaoke spot for a little down time. Recently, I’ve been trying to get more comfortable with doing things alone. So far I’ve gone out by myself a number of times and I’m gearing up to…

big pile of sobby goo. yep.

It seems like lately, all the perfect words, blogs, poems, and phrasing come to me all at once. While I’m driving. Either that or two seconds before I fall asleep. Either way, it does me (and you, my readers) no good at all. If I was able to post everything I think about while driving,…

rocking the boat

Just the other day I was super stoked at having posted almost every day for like, over a month and now I’ve gone almost two weeks without posting much of note. So for that, I apologize. It’s been a rough couple of weeks, lately. I had hoped that blogging about it would help, but I can’t…